Including Readings in Your Ceremony

One of the most common questions couples ask is whether they need to include readings in their ceremony. The short answer? You don’t have to if you don’t want to! Your wedding should reflect you as a couple, so if readings don’t feel right, that’s absolutely fine.

Readings can add a personal, heartfelt touch to your ceremony. They’re also a wonderful way to involve family and friends in your special day. If you’re unsure how to incorporate them, here are a few ideas:

  • Have More Than One Reader – If a poem has two verses, consider having two different people read each part. This keeps it engaging and gives more loved ones a chance to participate.
  • Mix It Up – You don’t have to stick to traditional readings. Consider song lyrics, excerpts from books, or even something personal you’ve written.
  • Choose Something That Speaks to You – Whether it’s romantic, lighthearted, or deeply meaningful, pick something that truly resonates with you as a couple.

Popular Readings for Wedding Ceremonies

Below, I’ve listed some of the most popular and well-loved readings to inspire you. I hope you find something that feels just right for your special day.A well-chosen reading or poem can add depth, meaning, and emotion to a wedding ceremony. Below is a selection of romantic, heartfelt, and unique readings and poems that couples can incorporate into their special day.

Classic & Romantic Readings

  1. “Union” by Robert Fulghum
    A simple yet profound reflection on the meaning of marriage and partnership.
  2. “Sonnet 116” by William Shakespeare
    “Let me not to the marriage of true minds / Admit impediments…” A timeless ode to enduring love.
  3. “I Carry Your Heart With Me” by E.E. Cummings
    A beautifully intimate expression of deep, abiding love.
  4. “Blessing of the Hands” (Anonymous)
    A heartfelt reading about the journey of love and support through marriage.
  5. “The Art of Marriage” by Wilferd Arlan Peterson
    A guide to a lifelong, loving partnership.

Modern & Non-Traditional Readings

  1. “The One” by Rupi Kaur
    A contemporary and heartfelt poem about finding your person.
  2. “Captain Corelli’s Mandolin” by Louis de Bernières
    A passage about love growing deep, becoming part of who you are.
  3. “Love Is Friendship Caught Fire” by Laura Hendricks
    A beautiful description of love evolving from deep friendship.
  4. “A Lovely Love Story” by Edward Monkton
    A charming and quirky reading, perfect for lighthearted couples.
  5. “Excerpt from The Amber Spyglass” by Philip Pullman
    A profound and emotional declaration of love.

Irish & Celtic Readings

  1. “Irish Blessing” (Traditional)
    “May the road rise up to meet you…” A classic, meaningful blessing for a wedding day.
  2. “Scaffolding” by Seamus Heaney
    A metaphorical look at love as a strong, well-built structure.
  3. “Beannacht” by John O’Donohue
    A beautiful Celtic blessing for love and partnership.
  4. “The Apache Wedding Blessing”
    (While not originally Irish, this blessing resonates with many couples.)

Short & Sweet Quotes

  1. “When You Are Old” by W.B. Yeats
    A touching poem about love that lasts a lifetime.
  2. “Touched by an Angel” by Maya Angelou
    A reflection on the power of love to transform us.
  3. “This Day I Married My Best Friend” (Anonymous)
    A short, sentimental reading perfect for best friends turned soulmates.
  4. “Love Sonnet XVII” by Pablo Neruda
    A deeply passionate and moving expression of love.
  5. “How Falling in Love is Like Owning a Dog” by Taylor Mali
    A humorous and heartfelt comparison between love and dog ownership.

For a Spiritual or Religious Ceremony

  1. “1 Corinthians 13:4-8” (Bible)
    “Love is patient, love is kind…” A well-known and deeply meaningful passage.
  2. “Song of Solomon 2:10-13” (Bible)
    A poetic and romantic scripture about love’s beauty.
  3. “Khalil Gibran on Marriage” (from The Prophet)
    A philosophical take on the balance of unity and individuality in love.
  4. “Ruth 1:16-17” (Bible)
    A declaration of unwavering commitment and love.
  5. “Buddhist Wedding Prayer”
    A serene and meaningful blessing for a lifetime of love.

If you need help choosing the perfect reading, I’d be delighted to guide you. Your ceremony should feel like ‘you’—let’s create something truly meaningful together.